FRIENDSHIP

Friendship started immediately a child starts socializing, psychologically speaking, friendship is dynamic, mutual relationship between two individuals. People have different definitions of friendship. For some they will say, it is a trust in an individual that he or she won’t hurt you, others will say, it is unconditional love. This is base on people’s experiences in life.

Friendship is a feeling of comfort and emotional safety with a person.  It is when someone knows you better than yourself and assures to be by your side in every emotional crisis. It is when you can sleep fighting and get another morning with a better understanding. Friendship is much beyond roaming together and sharing good moments, it is when someone comes to rescue you from the worst phase of life.

And this I say, I love you all....my friends out there!!!

A world without you guys is a world to be noted “NEW” again, cos you all have pulled me through in this life. I do appreciate you all.

 I did love those gentle smiles you all gave to me. Those words spoken to me whether in harsh or soft manner means thanks so much for it has guided me in life. I so much love it when I get a hug from my friends cos it says a lot that mere words cannot even utter. Sometimes when I feel down, I run to my friends and am been uplifted without them saying a word. 

Whenever I make the wrong choices and mistakes they do not make me feel bad, but instead they tell me...”YOUR mistakes is YOUR learning too” .A certain period it seems my  whole world has turned upside down, then i pick my phone and ring my boyfriend and what he told me kept me going ...he said “ALL IS WELL” repeat after me, which I did..lolzz

MY HOLIDAY...2011

Time is a man’s enemy..okay at least for me anyway..

and since I USED THE ONLY TIME I had to type

this and my words vanished when I saved my draft

I am now making a quick attempt at re typing.

There has been little time to write, play my with my laptop, go to church

or sleep for that matter. After hoilday though things should

go back to a normal busy.

My Christmas holiday was supposed to be good. Seeing that Christmas magic

on  kids faces was the high light of my day.

Thanks to my angel, Little sister got an up to events.

Yes she had a list of them and she's rather good at it too.

And my boyfriend kept me company all through on phone which made it exciting..lol hamattan was everywhere.

Until I had cough then it had to go.(as if it was meant for me) 

Thank you again my angel and my boyfriend out there, you guys truly made my

Christmas a blast... have a hug, is for you guys.

Later in the day my daddy and mommy came over to enjoy the meal

I made for them and to open gifts. Little angle challenged  daddy

to a game of hide and seek, which daddy won.:) Toward the end of the evening

i had to bring up the issue of my late brother.*sad* i lost him on the 15^th of Nov,2011. He was discussed and that brought tears to the eyes of all of us. At this moment our Christmas was a ruin. I didn’t mean to ruin it. I just thought of the last chrismas we spent together, how fun it was, how we played with the food, pastries, watched movies and had the opportunity to visit cousins and loved ones.

My daddy said

May his soul rest in peace. Amen .Hearing that broke my heart as I have only just learned

That i will never see him again until we meet in heaven. He was going to wait for me until i return to school so that he gives me gist of what happened in the house when i was away to school, tell me how he missed me, and i was to give him his Christmas gift too.

GONE TOO SOON.

I worry about him so much, i knew i shouldn’t worry so much...but i can’t help it..he was my baby brother, best brother ever had, the love of my life. How we have planned for the future. He promise to take good care of his nieces and nephews.

Anyway, I hope you all have had a good Christmas.

May the New Year bring good health to all

And grant us more time...with the ones we love.

~Oluchi. 

I WILL....

I am capable, I am worthwhile, I am beautiful, I am lovable, i shall accept both my strength and my weakness for they are me.

I will never again believe in a lie that if I make a mistake am a mistake. Instead I will use my mistake as a learning tool. From today, I will allow myself to feel capable that i make seek excellent, I will also allow myself to feel sad so that the joyous moment may come, I will allow myself to feel joy, so that i may be revitalized, I shall allow myself to feel afraid so that i may be courageous.

I will allow myself to feel alone so that i may know myself, I will allow myself to feel beautiful that I may be free, i will allow myself to feel worthy that i may know my life purpose.

I take responsibility for creating my life stories through the choice that I make. To blame others is to give away my personal power. Who then will I allow to write my next chapter

Now I will seek courage to believe in God. Who will laugh with me in the sunlight and cry with me in darkness.

I LOVE SUCH A PEACEFUL  AND BEAUTIFUL ATMOSPHERE.

I will make a small difference on this planet before I leave.  I WILL LIVE, LAUGH, LOVE, AND LEARN ON THIS JOURNEY.

LIVE WELL..LIVE WISELY

Hello Everyone,

       

         It’s a pleasure to write for you to read. I have always thought to share my thoughts on this blog...wow!!! Thank God it came to pass. #successatlast. My friend thinks that am a great writer but am not. Am starting to learn how to write. One thing i know is that if you have a talent, definitely you can use it but will be better if you learn more on how to use it to achieve greater things oh! Please this is my quote. I am not learning how to write yet, but will learn soon. Am just using what i have right now...lol

Today been a new day in our lives we thank the Almighty God for it and that is why we need to live our lives to the fullest, you never can know what next. So every opportunity you have use and make good use of it. Life is too precious to be wasted that’s why am here today to speak for people to hear, lift the down casted and to encourage the discouraged. I know is only one person that can give you strength and insight to understand that life is too precious and that person is JESUS. He is the hope for the hopeless. Accept him, believe in him and you will come alive. Be green. I am green.

I know some will ask ...who is this person?

This is me......am nothing less. Writing is my hobby and i dance to it’s tune. I am a dreamer.

MY WRITE UP, MY DREAM

As a child growing up in Nigeria, i see the world as a book with so many pages. i might not be the best in class but i did enjoy reading and writing. whenever i read, it whets my literary appetite even though i did not study literature.

for me writing is an expression of my feelings. in the solitude of my writing i explore the deepest of my feelings with my ink. writing gives me much pleasure as drink a chilled apple juice.it makes me to unlock the hidden places inside me to discover wisdom and revelations hidden right inside me.

But then, i ask myself, why can't i write for the world to see and read? what else can i give to myself as an answer than to say"GO AHEAD GIRL! BREAK THE JINX! "i can do this" i found touching and inspiring when i read what i write and i say to myself." i'av got this dream and i must live by it"